Joe Knese

Joseph Albert Charles Knese, born on March 19, 1941, in St. Louis, Missouri, peacefully entered into eternal life with Christ on September 10, 2024, surrounded by his beloved family. 

A lifelong resident of St. Louis, Joe spent his final years at Aberdeen Heights in Kirkwood. His sense of duty and love for his country was evident in his service with the Army Reserve and his involvement with the Patriot Guard Riders. Joe never missed the chance to celebrate the 4th of July or honor veterans, always flying the American flag proudly and displaying a life-size replica of the Statue of Liberty, symbols of his patriotism and unwavering respect for his country. Joe was a proud 1959 graduate of St. Mary's High School, where he built friendships that lasted a lifetime. He was a dedicated worker, first as the owner of several Shell Service stations and later J&D Express Car Wash. Throughout his career, Joe was known for his generosity, strong work ethic, integrity, and dedication to his community and his family.

 Joe was the beloved son of the late Victor and Florence Knese. The love of his life survives him, his devoted wife of sixty-three years, Darlene Wierschem Knese, with whom he shared a life filled with love, faith, travel, and laughter. Together, they raised four children: Julie (Michael) McDonagh, Tommy (Kim) Knese, Cathy (Tim) Tichacek, and Mark (Suzan) Knese. 

 Joe's greatest joy was his family, and his legacy lives on through his cherished grandchildren: Florence (Matt), Patrick (Cari), Trevor (Kate), Maggie, Christopher, Hannah, Katie, Avery, Joseph II, and Victor, and his great-grandchildren: Ellie, James, and Annie. He is also survived by his sister, Mary Ann (David) Kauffman, and was preceded in death by his brother, James J. Knese. 

A man of deep faith, Joe was actively involved in numerous church and community organizations, including the Knights of Columbus – 4th Degree, ACTS, St. Vincent de Paul Society, Moolah Shriners, Columbia Masonic Lodge 474, and the Boys & Girls Club of America. He was also a past Exalted Ruler of the Crestwood Elks Lodge. Joe's dedication to service and his Catholic faith were constants throughout his life, leaving a lasting impact.

 The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to the staff at Aberdeen Heights and the caregivers at St. Luke's Hospital for their compassionate care, as well as to all who have offered love, prayers, and support during this time.

 Visitation will be held at Ziegenhein Funeral Home on Lemay Ferry Road in South County on Friday, September 13, from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. A funeral mass will take place at St. Gerard Majella in Kirkwood on Saturday, September 14, at 10:30 a.m., followed by a burial at St. Peter & Paul Catholic Cemetery on Gravois Road.

 Memorial contributions can be made in Joe's honor to The Shriner's Hospital or Memory Care Home Solutions.

 Joe will forever be remembered as a devoted husband, loving father and grandfather, and loyal friend. His life of service, faith, generosity, and love for others will continue to inspire all who loved and knew him.